Before reaching the beautiful sacrament of marriageduring which the bride and groom will entrust their love to God through the prayer of the spouses, it is good that the bride and groom pray for their partner. The commitment periodallows us to discover the other better and better and is an opportunity to surrender love to the grace of God.
Regardless of whether the commitment is celebrated with a blessing, in church or not, it is important to thank God for the loved one and ask for his help in this loving journey. In fact, this is vital to starting the adventure of a lifetime together!
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Here are some prayers and tips for writing a commitment prayer.
Three beautiful prayers for the engaged
Prayer of the bride and groom “In my heart, Lord”
“In my heart, Lord, it has been lit
love for a creature
that you know and love.
You made me find it yourself
and you introduced me.
I thank you for this gift
that fills me with deep joy,
makes me like you, who are love,
and makes me understand the value of the life you have given me. Make me not waste this wealth that you have put
in my heart: teach me that love is a gift and that it cannot be mixed
with no selfishness;
that love is pure
and that cannot remain in any baseness; that love is fruitful
and from today must produce
a new way of living in both.
I ask you, Lord, for who awaits me
and think of me; who walks for
by my side; make us worthy of each other;
that we be help and model.
Help us in our preparation
to marriage, to its greatness,
to your responsibility, in order to
that from now on our souls
dominate our thoughts
and lead them in love.”
Prayer of the newlyweds of Pope Francis
“God the Father, source of Love,
Open our hearts and our minds
to recognize in you the origin and the goal of our path as boyfriends.
Jesus Christ, beloved husband,
teach us the life of fidelity and respect,
show us the truth of our affections,
make us available to the gift of life.
Holy Spirit, fire of love,
kindle in us the passion for the Kingdom,
the courage to take big and responsible decisions,
the wisdom of tenderness and forgiveness.
God, Trinity of Love,
guide our steps
Amen”
Preparation prayer for the bride and groom before marriage
“Lord you are love, and source of all love,
You who know the hearts of young people,
You have placed in our hearts
the ability to love and be loved,
You know that passions make you forget
the true meaning of love
and that we have to fight
to keep a pure and loving heart.
Grant us not to debase love,
make us understand all the selfishness
that sometimes hides in this word,
give us a clean and simple love,
teach us the dignity of love.
Don’t let us ever profane
in thought, in heart, in body,
this gift of life that you have entrusted to us,
bless and purify our love so that,
if it is your will, one day we will become husbands and fathers.
Amen.”
Tips for writing a commitment sentence
The prayer of the bride and groom, like the prayer of the spouses, which the bride and groom will pray on the wedding day, can consist of two parts:
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a thanksgiving to thank the Lord for having allowed them to meet their fiancé(e), having allowed them to see him/her with the eyes of God and thus discern the unique and wonderful person he/she is.
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A prayer to ask God to stay within the couple and help them on their way to marriageespecially allowing each one to probe the depth of their love, in complete freedom and with great respect.
Each of the promised can write a sentence or both can have a single one in common. The preparation of this prayer is an essential time of sharing, which can be an opportunity for lovers to talk with an open heart about their feelings, hopes and fears, which will allow them to move more serenely and confidently towards marriage.
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